These kiddos are experimenting with cause and effect. “If I drop my banana, it makes a splat. If I drop it again, it makes another splat.” They find this endlessly fascinating. You, less so.
14 Month Developmental Milestones – News Tribun
They’ll also start imitating you. They might try to “brush” their hair with a toothbrush or “talk” on your phone (which is likely a banana). This is adorable, and also a reminder that they are watching your every move. So, maybe don’t curse at the traffic.
Quick note: They have the attention span of a gnat. One minute they’re obsessed with a toy car, the next they’re eating a leaf. Roll with it.
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Don’t buy a million toys. Your 14-month-old will be happier with a cardboard box and a wooden spoon than any fancy electronic gadget. Seriously. Save your money.
Talk to them constantly. Narrate your day: “Now I’m folding laundry. This is your sock. It’s blue.” It feels silly, but it builds their language skills. And read books—board books they can chew on. Because they will.
Let them lead the play. If they want to spend 10 minutes staring at a ceiling fan, fine. You’re not doing it wrong. They’re just marveling at the spinning magic of modern life.
And for the love of all that is holy, lower your expectations. Your house will be a disaster zone. You will eat cold coffee more often than hot. You will hear the phrase “not yet, sweetie” a thousand times a day.
But then your 14-month-old will grab your face with sticky hands and plant a soggy, open-mouthed kiss on your cheek. And you’ll realize: this chaotic, potty-obsessed, block-throwing stage is exactly what it should be. You’re doing great.
